Happy Sunday, friends!
(Do you get, even in the least bit, creepy vibes thinking of me saying “friends?”
Like do I sound over-exasperated or desperate or like I don’t have any real friends?
Just wondering cause that’s what I always think when I use it. Which is often.)
Today’s post is the sequel to a previous post: Two-Timin’: Dresses as Tops!
As someone who sees change as necessary and thrives on feeling new—you know, the type of person that has to change their furniture around every 2 months?—I am constantly recycling old clothes for new looks. Cause I ain’t rich.
For example, wearing tops over dresses. The parent to this post talked tucking tight dresses into skirts in order to feel like you have a new shirt. This styling tip will make you feel like you have on a new skirt.
It’s not groundbreaking–it’s just plain easy. If I’m feeling like I have nothing to wear, one of the first things I do is scan my slip dresses and think if I have any tops that would look good over them.
In the past, I did this a lot with crop tops and maxi dresses.
But lately I’ve been using lighter tops that I can tie into a knot and pairing them with shorter hemmed dresses. For the look above, I tied this Truly Madly Deeply top (which I have been wearing like crazy, omg!) into a knot behind my back. I’m wearing a slinky, Zara slip underneath. I like the lighter materials because it allows the dress to be more a part of the outfit. The idea of tying knots into the tops adds more shape to the look and it gives off the feeling of being effortlessly polished.
I had a… very unhealthy habit… where every time I knew I was going out, I’d buy a new outfit! I’m not made of money, so this became a problem erm, bank wise—but it also meant I was stocking up on the “one wear” items.
I was a Forever21 whore.
*cries to the sky*
Now don’t get me wrong, I respect Forever21. I have mad love for Forever21. But, as with any store + shopping decisions, you have to
1- be aware of what you’re getting and for what purpose
2- think about how many times you will wear it in relation to its price
3- ask yourself: is it a need or a love?
Wow, “need” and “love” are both pretty convincing in shopper terms, right? I’m suggesting you choose love more. (How sweet of me!) No, what I’m saying is–be extra picky.
I have been really picky when I shop. If I don’t love it, I’m leaving it. If I have control over all the things I purchase and surround myself with, I don’t see a point in buying something I don’t love.
I’m saying: You should be shopping for things you need but purchasing the things you love. If you love it in store like I loved this black Zara slip or this sheer American Apparel cami, you won’t mind wearing them 2 to 3 years down the road, like me!
Build a closet army! A team you can be proud of and feel confident in when it comes time to sub in for one of the starting five.
A similar, faux leather dress from Zara can be found here: Camisole Dress
The great thing about both of these Zara slips is that they look fine alone! Adding a shirt just gives you options and more wears.
Since American Apparel is closing (still haven’t come to terms with this) I can’t link you to this cami, which came in an assortment of beautiful colors—I have it in teal, too. Alas, camis are easy to come across and you are not at a dead end.
Here are some camis that would be easy to style over a dress:
Here is the link to the mesh top I am wearing in the first outfit and tops that are similar:
Last but not least, here is the similar Zara slip + a few extra options:
Happy browsing and happy shopping!